On being a cardigan

My Featured Blogger this week is Nora Edinger of JOY Journal. After a long career as a newswriter and occasional contributor to The Wasington Post, Nora is now an innkeeper and independent writer of both fiction and nonfiction. Her prose may be as cozy as a cardigan, but it’s far from homespun — it’s full of subtle textures and colors that linger long in the mind and heart.

“If adventures will not befall a young lady in her own village, she must seek them abroad.” ~Jane Austen (Northanger Abbey)

Our daughters are potted plants, yearning for the deck or porch after a long season indoors. It’s time for big sky, for wind and rain. It’s time for the occasional dandelion fluff to drift by and add an unplanned punch of color to their carefully tended lives.

This serendipity is OK. For God is there in the earthy soil, in the air, in the sky.

Our daughters are sleek rockets, half out of the silo but built for the express purpose of being launched. Launched. It’s time for speed and inky black skies glittering with stars. God is there in this vast unknown, as well.

Our daughters are birds, one fledged and surprising us with flights that grow longer and stronger by the day. The other is still perched on the edge of the nest we so carefully built but flapping her wings. It’s time to fly and she knows what to do. So, too, does God.

Our daughters are women – by the grace of God, by the support of a village, by years of parenting that have left us panting a bit with the exertion of it all but pleased.

What am I? I am also a woman. I am both a bird ready to stretch her wings for a second time and a ginger-colored cat napping in warm window well. It depends on the day or, more so, the hour of the day.

I am fond of stars but am not so much a rocket now. I am more like a cardigan sweater. Handy to have around when one needs it. Easy to tie around the shoulders – out of sight but close enough – when one doesn’t.

Perhaps I am less something Mr. Rogers would wear, however, than a pale blue cardi with lady bugs knitted into the pattern. Perhaps I have a ribbon edge or fancy buttons shaped like spring blooms or tiny crystals.

Perhaps I am at least part of what these amazing women will need when this day or that one turns chilly. That’s enough. It is time and God is there, here and anywhere our wings might take us.

To visit or subscribe to Nora Edinger’s JOY Journal, click here!

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15 Responses to On being a cardigan

  1. Thanks, Mitch, for sharing Nora Edinger’s heartfelt tribute of raising her beautiful daughters!

  2. Thank you for sharing Nora’s delightful post, Mitch. It made me nostalgic for when my own daughter flew out of her comfy nest. 🙂

  3. Mesmerizing. (goosebumps here)

  4. Beautifully written about a mother/daughter relationship and letting go.

  5. I can already tell I’m going to enjoy following her! Thank you, Mitch! 🙂

  6. April says:

    Very beautiful!

  7. JOY journal says:

    Thanks for the lovely intro and share, Mitch!!

  8. Thanks for sharing Nora’s post. Beautifully written!

  9. revruss1220 says:

    What a delightful read! Thanks for the intro, Mitch. I subscribed and will look forward to reading her posts.

  10. Dawn Marie says:

    Adorable and another wonderful recommendation. Subscribed!!

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