A True Friend Is Always There

‘Boy in Field’ by Rachael Crowe   —   ‘Tabby Cat’ by Adél Grőber

My Real Memoir

We’d Moved…

…and I was alone again. Or so it seemed. But I was soon to learn that a true friend is always there. I missed my Downey friends. But I’d only spent a month in the 2nd grade there, and Stevie was the only kid my age I’d really bonded with. My classroom send-off, with cupcakes and a “Goodbye, Mitch!” sign, wasn’t exactly a tear-jerker. But, oh, how I would miss my wonderfully odd assortment of non-school friends: Weird Eddie, Crazy Old Alice, my daymom Frieda and her magical garden filled with all of my non-human-friends!

I didn’t know what to expect. I only knew that Mom was right: this was big.

The city of La Mirada was so new that, like the proverbial airplane being built as it flies, the neighborhood was still going up around us. The next block was nothing but wood frames—like giant Tinker Toys beckoning to be climbed on when the construction bosses weren’t looking! I played alone, but still had fun. Sort of.

The Bigger Adventure…

…was just out my bedroom window. The field across the street was a cluster of gently rolling hills, once covered with commercially-grown flowers, now chest-high with weeds, and dotted with scrub oaks and precariously leaning shacks. The latter had once been occupied by braceros, seasonal Mexican farmworkers who’d lived in them during the flower-picking season. The former overseer’s family were packing bags when I knocked on their rough-hewn door. “No, no, nos vamos” (“No, no, we’re leaving”), said the mama. But her two little kids Hugo and Manuela were starved for entertainment, so we played pantomime games until they left.

My real adventures in “The Field” were yet to come. Meanwhile, I’d have to resume 2nd grade in a brand-new city at a brand-new school full of brand-new kids. But before that, I met my first new friend.

I Heard a Raging Voice…

…near the end of my first week in La Mirada. I raced up the street to see what was happening, and found a man beating a skinny, terrified little cat with a broom. His daughter had trapped it in their garage in the hopes of keeping it. And so, with all the rationality of a devolving brute, the poor girl’s father was “teaching it a lesson!” He threatened to do the same for me if I didn’t leave instantly. I wanted to teach him a lesson, but elected instead to scoop up the cat and run away with it.

People say cats are loners, and sometimes mistake this for proof that they don’t care. False. I know this because I’m a loner, and one of my greatest lessons in caring came from a tiger-striped tabby named Zipper.

We would have nearly a dozen cats in the ensuing years, and most would distribute their affections equally. But not Zipper. I was Zipper’s hero. Period. And he was my BFF (best feline friend). He walked me to the corner when I headed for school and met me there when I came home. He listened attentively as I read aloud under the covers at night. And then put his head on the pillow beside mine and saw me off to other worlds. And when my first new human friends appeared, the lesson Zipper had taught me was clear:

A true friend is always there.

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Ideas Are Only Seeds

Farmer's hand watering a young plantImage courtesy of SnugHug&Co

Thought for the Week

“Like every book I never wrote, (this one) is by far the best book I have ever written.” ~G.K. Chesterton

Ideas are only seeds. What does that mean? In nature, 99% of seeds never germinate, and of those, owing to poor conditions, less than 1% survive. That means only about 1 in 10,000 seeds actually becomes a living plant, of which roughly 1 in 10 truly thrives. Result? Only 1 of every 100,000 seeds actually fulfills its purpose.

Ideas Are the Same

Only a tiny percentage of ideas are ever actually planted, watered, pruned, and patiently cared for long enough to bear a bumper crop of fruit.

Which means only about 1 in 100,000 of the world’s greatest masterpieces, scientific breakthroughs, and revolutionary inventions has ever actually seen the light of day. Will yours be that 1 in 100,000? Remember, ideas are only seeds.

Plant yours–and nurture them!

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Be the Miracle Others Need

Be the Miracle Others NeedSource: From the Inside Out

Pray for Power to Equal Your Tasks

Be the miracle others need: Perhaps God’s most remarkable accomplishment is not that he can work miracles, but that he can work them through us.

If we are willing.

“And then Jesus looked at them and said, ‘Humanly speaking, this is impossible. But with God all things are possible.’” ~Matthew 19:26

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Accidentally Invisible!

Car-pet

Some People Lead Highly Visible Lives

Others prefer to gather secrets unseen, and then go off to write tell-all stories. Yet at one time or another, we’re all accidentally invisible. But enough of this metaphorical business (there’s more in the quotes after the pictures). Here are some people, objects, and animals that are (almost) literally invisible!

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“Almost everything important in life is invisible.” ~Nadja Sam

“There’s an inherent pleasure in being unseen.” ~Emily St. John Mandel

“I don’t know why people are so keen to put the details of their private life in public; they forget that invisibility is a superpower.” ~Banksy

“Invisibility can be good as a superpower. But psychiatry reveals people don’t like it very much.” ~Joyce Rachelle

“This invisibility has its drawbacks after all. Otherwise, I suppose, I might have spent a warm and comfortable night in bed!” ~The Hobbit

“It’s amazing how much power a smile holds. It’s contagious…it’s also the most powerful camouflage. For that person who seems to have it all together is merely masking the pain of drowning tears. Don’t be so quick to assume.” ~Brittany Burgunder

“You see, the strangeness of my case is that now I no longer fear the invisible, I’m terrified by reality.” ~Jean Lorrain

“We think,” said Silverfish, leaning closer, “that he found a way of making himself invisible.” “Really?” “Because,” said Silverfish, nodding conspiratorially, “no-one has seen him.” ~Terry Pratchett

“You’re only as invisible as you feel.” ~Michelle Cuevas

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The Weekend Is Fast-Approaching!

The Weekend Is Fast-Approaching“Dragon Lizard Caught Playing Leaf Guitar” by Aditya Permana (not Photoshopped)

That’s Me Doing Spring Chores

Seriously though, the weekend is fast-approaching, and it’s important to have a plan. Therefore, here are some helpful tips you can use to plan your…

OK, so I lied. These aren’t helpful tips at all, they’re just funny comments. But then, funny comments make you smuckle (smile + chuckle). And that helps you get through the things you don’t want to do, right? So, I take it back–these are helpful tips!

You’re welcome.

“I’ve been looking over the list of spring chores I made up last fall, and darned if they aren’t fall chores, after all.” ~Robert Breault

“Normal Person’s Weekly Chore List:
1. Clean kitchen
2. Clean bathroom
3. Clean entire rest of domicile
Cleaning-Impaired Person’s Weekly Chore List:
1. Don’t get peanut butter on sheets”
~Dave Barry

“Cleanliness is not next to godliness. It isn’t even in the same neighborhood. No one has ever gotten a religious experience out of removing burned-on cheese from the grill of the toaster oven.” ~Erma Bombeck

“I fought the lawn and the lawn won.” ~Unknown

“My neighbor asked me if he could use my lawnmower.  I told him he could — as long as he didn’t take it out of my yard.” ~Unknown

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Even When My Father Wasn’t There…

Mommandad on their Wedding Day    –    The world’s oldest surviving McDonald’s

My Real Memoir

Even when my father wasn’t there, he was there. He was the gravity that kept us from flying off into oblivion. Which is to say, into the sort of poverty he and Mom had endured during the Great Depression. But he was out for more than mere security. Dad was ambitious to a fault. He was determined to attain all a man could attain in life, and take Mom and me with him. Mom went gleefully. I went with a blend of pride and fear. Why? Because he was determined (at the sagely age of 20-something) that I attain all I should attain as well. So his affection always seemed to have strings attached.

WWII Had Ended Before Dad Got There

Nevertheless, he was proud of his Marine Corps training. And so, when I turned five, he bestowed upon me the incomparable benefits of his boot camp experience. (“Oorah!”) He woke me up by singing reveille in my ear at 6 a.m. And if I didn’t respond immediately, he splashed water in my face, and shouted, “Up and at ‘em!” I failed. (Mom let me go back to sleep after he left for work.) He also showed me how to make my bed so drumhead-tight he could “bounce a quarter off it!” I failed. (Mom remade it later.)

Still, Dad made me laugh, too. A lot. And he taught me how to do things, sometimes perfectly, sometimes not. Like when he bought me a boomerang and insisted on first showing me how to throw it. I never saw it again. (Presumably, it made its way back to Australia). I was disappointed, but secretly glad he too could fail at something.

Our First Little Home…

…had a tiny “grove” of baby orange trees. It was doubtful they’d survive the winter, but Dad was committed! He fertilized them, staked them to make them grow straight, and threw lots of water at them (“Up and at ‘em!”).

So, I decided to reward him for his efforts by gathering up all the “ripe” oranges that had fallen to the ground, and proudly presenting them to Dad (they were rotting, but what did I know?). He seemed confused at first, but then smiled, and said, “Thank you, son.” And I knew I’d done well. Only years later did I realize everything I gave him—the oranges, the box I put them in, even the used card—already belonged to him.

I Wasn’t the Only One…

…to reward Dad for his efforts. The moment he’d gotten his driver’s license back, the Herald-Express offered him a newspaper dealership in a squeaky new suburb on the outer edge of Los Angeles County.

A month later, Mommandad took me to our favorite bistro, a little one-of-a-kind hamburger stand called “McDonald’s.” (The McDonald’s in Downey, California, was only the second one ever built). After numbing me with a chocolate shake, Dad announced, “Well, we’ve sold our home!” I blinked uncomprehendingly. “This is big, honey,” Mom added, “our lives are going to change!” And how right she was. Few things change kids as much as moving. And their parents too.

Dad’s eyes had a light in them I’d never seen before.

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The True Meaning of Sacrifice

Thought for the Week

It’s Memorial Day in My Country

The True Meaning of Sacrifice: Today we honor those who’ve sacrificed their lives for the sake of others. But as deeply as the word “sacrifice” resonates in us, the key word is others.

Martin Luther King Jr. put it this way: In Jesus’ story of the Good Samaritan, “The first question which the priest and the Levite asked,” after seeing a wounded man beside the road, “was, ‘If I stop to help this man, what will happen to me?’ But the good Samaritan reversed the question: ‘If I do not stop to help this man, what will happen to him?’”

The True Meaning of Sacrifice…

Is to offer oneself in service to others. That is the kind of sacrifice that deserves to be, no, must be commemorated. More people have given their lives in service to others than we’ll ever know. Perhaps you’ve known or are even related to one. There are some stirring examples in this article by Elisabeth Sedgwick: 10 People Who Sacrificed Their Lives To Save Others.

“When you sacrifice something precious, you’re not really losing it. You’re just passing it on to someone else.” ~Mitch Albom

     “I’m willing to walk in darkness if it keeps humans in the light.” ~Victoria Schwab

“The happiness of love is in action. Its test is this: what one is willing to do for others.” ~Lew Wallace

“Greater love has no one than this: that they lay down their life for their friends.” ~John 15:13

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There Is No Greater Love

There Is No Greater Love

“Sacrifice…should be done from love…from necessity…it should be done for people who need your strength because they don’t have enough of their own.” ~Veronica Roth

There is no greater love than this. Tomorrow is Memorial Day in my country, a day when we honor those who have given their lives in service to us. It’s a time when we hear and repeat stories of sacrifice, of courage rooted in love, not for self but for others. Why do these stories move us? Because we know instinctively that without such sacrifices, we would have no present. And without the ultimate sacrifice, we would have no future.

“For God so loved the world…”

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A Walk in the Woods

A Walk in the WoodsAll photos are © Copyright by Mitch Teemley and may not be reproduced without written permission

There’s Nothing Better in the Spring Than…

A walk in the woods. We’re blessed to live in an area known for its wooded parks. And so, weather allowing, on most Sunday afternoons Trudy and I will hit the trails, camera phones blazing. I captured these images at three local woodlands, one of which, Mt. Airy Forest, is less than a mile from our home.

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Unexpected Benefits

Unexpected BenefitsAARP Member Benefits Update

When I Turned Fifty

Unexpected benefits began to materialize. I received discount offers on walkers, power-lift recliners, walk-in bathtubs, and other things I so desperately needed at that advanced age. And when I joined the AARP (the American Association of Retired Persons) I started receiving regular Benefits Updates. Still, this one surprised me: Two days ago, I received the unexpected benefit of learning exactly…

How long I had left to live.

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