Wisdom is Like a Potluck Dinner
Avoid the store-bought stuff
Go back for seconds on the good stuff
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Mitch you may know that even though our ancestors claimed to invent this, it was probably from our Native American people practice of Potlatch where the tribe that did better that year hosted a feast for everyone else. Like much of our indigenous people culture it is too bad we didn’t pass that one down! Brad
Brad, I think the Native American ‘potlach’ gift-giving tradition is lovely, as are so many other things about indigenous American culture. However, according to most sources, potlucks originated in 16th century England.
I’m afraid that’s become part of our revisionist history. Of course I can’t find any sources now – the search engine algorithms would never allow it anymore – but the potlatch was not some pseudo Marxist ideal of sharing the wealth. People wanting to host a potlatch would save up valuables – which could include slaves – for years. What they gave out would establish their pride, status and power within the community; the more a person impoverished themselves by giving away highly valuable gifts, the greater their status, even if it meant personal ruin. There was also an exchange of gifts, and the host’s gifts had to be of greater value than what was given to them, or they would lose face. The story that I have not been able to find again involved a chief who was so shamed because someone gave him a gift of such value, he couldn’t possibly give anything that matched it, he committed suicide. The Canadian government didn’t ban potlatches because they were trying to commit cultural genocide. They did it because, in practice, it actually was harmful.
Oops. I didn’t mean to post that anonymously. I didn’t notice WordPress hadn’t included my user name.
Oh yes! You speak Truth… regarding potlucks and life!
Nice 😊
That’s the truth!
Definitely – I COLLECT recipes. Lol.
;>)
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The quote is indeed so great!
Thank you, AW!