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Being Content With What Is Ours

Thought for the Week: Being Content With What Is Ours During a Sunday drive, my wife and I stumbled across this wonderful old covered bridge above. It was an ordinary day made special by warm conversation and a light fall … Continue reading

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A Life Together Yet Always Apart

My Real Memoir From the start, our relationship had been arduous and unconventional. But then, like The Velveteen Rabbit, love had made it real. Weโ€™d started out as promiscuous unbelievers hungry for faith, and love had made that real too. … Continue reading

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When One Betrayal Leads to Another

Photo by Alexey Demidov My Real Memoir Sheโ€™d given me no reason to think I could win her. Yet Iโ€™d pursued her anyway. Dinah was like an exiled queen, chary and aloof, trusting no one. And I was the bastard … Continue reading

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Yet Another Accidental Betrayal

My Real Memoir Touch. One of my earliest recurring memories is of Mommandad on the couch in our den. Iโ€™d sit on the rug (closer to the TV), but scoot back so Mom could run her fingers through my hair. … Continue reading

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My Experiment in Becoming Human

Thought for the Week I recently wrote about speaking less and saying more. In other words, focusing more on others and less on ourselves. This wasn’t sagely advice from a master practitioner, it was a personal reminder; I have a … Continue reading

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Allow Me to Introduce You To…

If someone you love, someone you know to be kind, loving and wise, is the subject of virulent lies and rumors, the best way to fix the problem is not to defend them over and over again. Itโ€™s to introduce … Continue reading

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On This Date 40 Years Ago

On September 15, 1985, I married the woman who would change my life forever. Oh, I’d been in love a few times before, only to have the ooey-gooey feelings fade away. And by now I was a commitment-shy bachelor. But … Continue reading

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We Were Hungry for Real Love

Photo by cottonbro studio My Real Memoir Dinah was stately. She would have made an excellent queen. But she was also sensuous and bohemian. And underneath that creamy skin was a woman hungry for real love, rather than a repeat … Continue reading

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Love is Easy, Relationships are Hard

Photo by Rob de Winter My Real Memoir I was more cautious with Dinah than Iโ€™d been with previous relationships. If a relationship was even what this was. The words to the pop song โ€œTrying to Get the Feeling Againโ€ … Continue reading

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Ask and You Shall Receive!

Two Hilarious Sermon Illustrations Pastors, teachers, and drama groups: These two family-friendly comedy scenes are based on actual incidents involving my wife Trudy and me. In them, the fictional versions of us, Rick and Toodie, grumble, love, and laugh their … Continue reading

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