Mom, I Always Knew You Loved Me


See video below.

Mom was 20 when I was born—twenty times as old as me. But when I turned 10, I suddenly realized that she was now only three times as old as me. And when I reached 20 she would only be two times as old as me.  “Heck,” I thought, “soon she’ll be younger than me!”

I always sucked at math.

By the time I got to college I’d figured it out: Mom would always be exactly 20 years older than me. Period. More importantly, she would always have 20 years more life experience.

28745522-little-boy-pointing-to-something-in-the-countryside-showing-his-mother-a-point-of-interest-as-they-sIt’s like hiking with a tall friend: You come to a fork in the road, behind which is a hill obstructing your view. You can’t see what the two paths do beyond the hill, so how can you choose which one to take? You ask your tall friend who can see beyond the hill. It was just a short trip from there to realize that…

My mom was still experiencing new things. When I was 6, she was busy learning to be the mother of a 6 year old. And when I was 16, she was busy learning to be (survive being?) the mother of a 16 year old–not to mention processing all the other stuff life throws at a 30-something year old woman.

That was when my perspective on Mother’s Day changed. It wasn’t just a celebration of who my mom was, it was a celebration of who she was becoming! The only thing that remained the same was her love. That was there from start to finish.

Mom passed away in the fall of 1999, but I still remember who she was, who she was becoming, and the fact that she always loved me.

i-always-knew-you-loved-me_270_270That inspired a short play, I Always Knew You Loved Meabout a trio of young adults and their three seemingly unrelated stories.  If you’d like to read it—or if you’re with a drama group that might want to perform it—click here.

I also made a 4 1/2 minute mini-movie from the same script. You can watch the video by clicking on the image below.

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I love you, Mom. Every version of you. And I’m glad I never caught up with you. I mean, who wants to be older than their mom, right?

Happy Mother’s Day!

About mitchteemley

Writer, Filmmaker, Humorist, Thinker-about-stuffer
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8 Responses to Mom, I Always Knew You Loved Me

  1. says:

    My mom was twenty years older than me also. We kind of grew up together.

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  2. den169 says:

    Kudos for presenting life’s truths in such a wonderfully human way.

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  3. nanciec13 says:

    so true! great video Mitch–thank you!

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  4. And it’s not until they are gone that you find out how very much you love them.

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  5. bonmedi says:

    Loved the video!

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